Listen Closely
My wife and I have been married for 15 years. We have gone through many storms in life and I know there will be in the days ahead. Storms are a part of life. When we are having a difficult discussion we have a saying that makes us pay very close attention to the other person. It doesn’t matter how heated the argument is, it doesn’t matter how right I think I am if Kim says these five words, I pay real close attention. She doesn’t just throw these words that I am about to share you around anytime she wants to win an argument. No, she has only used them 10 or so times in our entire marriage. We only use these words to convey something of deep importance. When she uses them—I stop everything and really try to understand her side of things. Here are the words, "This is important to me."