Check out this command from Galatians:
Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other — Galatians 5:26
You know what Paul is talking about because we’ve all been on the receiving end of that — we’ve all been around people who are irritating; people who provoke us; people who stir up all sorts of feelings of anger, jealousy or even contempt. Sometimes it’s people we know, love and like, but in the wrong setting or in the perfect storm something snaps and we can’t stand them.
Of course, none of us like to think that we might be that person to others sometimes.