You ever tried to encourage some one and just totally bombed out? I have. I was in our local WINCO (grocery store) late one night getting my wife some pickles and peanut butter during our third pregnancy. While standing in line, the young lady in front of me had a giant bag of chocolate and a small pint of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream. She seemed happy and I jokingly asked, “One of those night, eh?” with a big smile on my face.
She burst into tears.
I don’t mean a little water under the eyes, I’m talking about a fire hydrant that just got popped open because of the volcanic pressure laying behind it. The clerk had to put a rain coat on to finish the transaction and I shrank to exactly 2.5 inches tall and almost drowned in the flood of tears that hit the floor around me. What started as a little small talk joke meant to make some one smile turned into one of the most embarrassing moments of my adult life. If that was you and you’re reading this, know that I’m very sorry for that moment in time. Maybe someday we could go out for ice cream (my treat!) and laugh about it?
A real encouragement disaster.